It’s normal for couples to have disagreements, but when small arguments become constant, they can drain intimacy and joy. Many people wonder, what do do if we bicker too much—especially when it seems like every little issue sparks conflict. As much as light bantering coming from a playful place can be a relationship strength, tipping over…
Emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy, trust, and long-term connection in any new relationship. When you feel safe emotionally, you’re more likely to relax, open up, and connect authentically. Creating emotional safety involves consistency, openness, non-judgment, and mutual respect from the start. It means being emotionally present, listening with care, and responding with empathy.…
If you and your partner are struggling with no progress being made on your own, seeing a couples therapist is a great way to get back on track. It can be hard to see through your own forest. If you're in contemplation of diving in, here are some important considerations to ponder to have the…
While many are anticipating the holidays to be warm, connecting and fun-filled, there are others who are dreading the political elephant in the room where divergent opinions are a reality. The concerns about conflict and potential relationship impact will be legitimate as some families gather.
Here are some ways to help protect the peace.
Have a…
Intimacy, the feeling of closeness and emotional connection with another person, is the cornerstone of healthy and fulfilling relationships. It encompasses various aspects, including emotional, intellectual, physical, and shared experiences, though partners might have different meanings around these, so important to check in on this to assess significance to each partner.
If intimacy has declined or…
Think of emotional safety as the glue that binds intimate relationships (and other close connections). It’s not a simple term but rather one that encompasses many aspects and is critical to healthy, secure and loving relationships.
The question is how much (or little) each partner feels heard, understood, validated, empathized with, prioritized, respected, trust and overall…